Why am I not attracted to masculine men? Why do I like more feminine attributes on a man?

That’s Osamu Dazai. He could pass for a girl, right? But he’s all guy, hot, hot, hot😛😛😛! At least to girls in Japan.

What’s hot is a guy who brings you tea when you’re sick (and makes sure it’s really hot, just the way you like it). What’s hot is a man who knows how to work with people, so he makes it in the working world. What’s hot is a man who gets down on the floor and plays with children and doesn’t disappear when one of them gets a poopy diaper, no, he changes it his own damn self😄. And then washes his hands.

What’s not hot is a guy who is lazy. What’s not hot is a guy who doesn’t know how to cook well. What’s not hot is toxic masculinity. Like this guy! And his friend, too:

How do you say "I don't speak Italian yet, but I hope to speak it well one day. It would be a pleasure to learn Italian with you. Would you like to teach me Italian?" in Italian?

Stay away from guys like this. Find the ones who are truly strong, not ones who peacock around. They’re the ones who are likely to wanna pee on you later🙄🤨. Which is the biggest reason why 40% of first marriages end in DIVORCE and why 90% of the time it’s the woman filing (when she’s college educated, that is. Overall it’s 70%.).

There’s a whole art thing in Asia about this. Here’s what’s considered a heart throb over there, devastatingly sexy😍😛!

Anyway, it’s good that you like metro-sexual guys. We need women who are attracted to all types so we’re not competing over the same small basket of guys😅🤪!!!

Hi, I’m Jo. My best friend died 2 years ago today. My husband died 6 months later. So, I’m a depressed mess (we were married 28 years) and can’t shake it. Even my Brother is worried. Some days I don’t do anything, and avoid men cause I don’t want to date. Any suggestions? Thanks for reading.